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Many couples these days have talked about adding swinging to their sex lives. In fact, probably a very high proportion have at least even thought about it. A much smaller proportion ever get around to actually doing anything about it. That can be a shame as many couples report definite benefits to their relationship by trying swinging.
So the question is – if you are interested in it, what is stopping you from trying swinger sex? For most people there are one or both of two main reasons that are holding them back. If either apply to you there are definitely things you can do about it.
The first reason is that their partner is not interested, or even against the idea. There are many underlying causes for this but it essentially comes down to one thing. If someone doesn’t want to try swinging (or anything else for that matter) it is because their beliefs are telling them that there is more pain attached to the activity of swinging than there is pleasure. Perhaps they think their partner will find someone else more attractive than them and that it will harm or even destroy their relationship. Perhaps they think it would not be pleasant and they will be pressured into doing something they don’t want to do. Whatever the thoughts, it is because they feel it will only cause problems rather than fun and greater intimacy.
If this is the case then it is important to talk through with your partner what swinging means to you, why you want to try it and to reassure them that it won’t damage your relationship. Let them know that swinging can actually be an enhancement to your sex life together. Certainly most successful swinging couples would say that swinging is about their relationship first, and by involving other people it adds some spice.
The other reason you might not have already tried swinger sex, if the both of you are already interested is probably because you have some reservations about what might happen. If this is the case for you, be brave! It may end up being a lot more fun than you ever imagined. Most swingers are extremely sensitive and aware people. They are not going to put you under any pressure to go beyond your comfort zone. Take a few steps and see what happens. You will never know what you are missing out on until you take some action and do something.
If you really do want to try swinger sex, take some positive action to make what might just be a fantasy into a reality. You might just be very glad you did!
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Source by Michael J Andrews
